The more I learn about sex in marriage, the more I see the tendencies to use labels as a way to define ourselves. Some commonly asked questions are: Are you […]
Take Me Out to the Ball Game
I like to use analogies that resonate with men and sports is almost always a home run in this regard. When someone starts talking about sports, no matter what kind, […]
“I feel so alone”
“I feel so alone.” “Am I the only one who feels this way?” “There must be something wrong with me.” Sound familiar? I want you to know that NO you […]
Can Your Spouse Share Their Heart With You
The question is, “Can your spouse share their heart with you?” This is the key to intimacy; a secret to a great sex life. Creating an environment where your spouse […]
An Encumbered Soul
AN ENCUMBERED SOUL Every woman who resists sex, despises sex, withholds sex, avoids sex has an encumbered soul. Definition of encumber encumbered; encumbering play \in-ˈkəm-b(ə-)riŋ\ 1. weigh down, burden tourists encumbered […]
DESIRE VS AROUSAL
Desire and arousal are words you hear a lot in our circle. Before I stepped into this journey of learning to dance with desire, I never even thought about these […]
Sex Talk
“Over half of college age men have been exposed to porn prior to age 13” Dr. Spitz. Page 67 The Penis Book. This is an astounding statistic. We are facing […]
Were we taught right?
The more I learn about low libido sex drives, the more I am convinced that there needs to be a shift in the way sexuality is taught and perceived. Say […]
My need for sex
Saying no to your spouse when they want sex is not helping your cause. The very things you desire from your spouse like friendship, security, help with the kids and […]
Relationship Priorities
There are a lot of marriages that are struggling because their priorities are mixed up. A successful marriage always places the wife and husband relationship first. All other relationships come […]