The more I learn about sex in marriage, the more I see the tendencies to use labels as a way to define ourselves. Some commonly asked questions are: Are you […]
Intimacy
Take Me Out to the Ball Game
I like to use analogies that resonate with men and sports is almost always a home run in this regard. When someone starts talking about sports, no matter what kind, […]
“I feel so alone”
“I feel so alone.” “Am I the only one who feels this way?” “There must be something wrong with me.” Sound familiar? I want you to know that NO you […]
Can Your Spouse Share Their Heart With You
The question is, “Can your spouse share their heart with you?” This is the key to intimacy; a secret to a great sex life. Creating an environment where your spouse […]
An Encumbered Soul
AN ENCUMBERED SOUL Every woman who resists sex, despises sex, withholds sex, avoids sex has an encumbered soul. Definition of encumber encumbered; encumbering play \in-ˈkəm-b(ə-)riŋ\ 1. weigh down, burden tourists encumbered […]
DESIRE VS AROUSAL
Desire and arousal are words you hear a lot in our circle. Before I stepped into this journey of learning to dance with desire, I never even thought about these […]
Were we taught right?
The more I learn about low libido sex drives, the more I am convinced that there needs to be a shift in the way sexuality is taught and perceived. Say […]
Relationship Priorities
There are a lot of marriages that are struggling because their priorities are mixed up. A successful marriage always places the wife and husband relationship first. All other relationships come […]
Rachel’s Story
They say that our brains (or our minds) are the biggest sex organ that we have. I (Rachel) will tell you why I agree with that. Sex has been a […]
Low Sex Drive
Ladies, here’s the thing: YOU HAVE COMPLETE CONTROL OVER YOUR SEX DRIVE. If you’ve been told that it is your spouse that does, you were told wrong. If you’ve been […]