The more I learn about sex in marriage, the more I see the tendencies to use labels as a way to define ourselves. Some commonly asked questions are: Are you […]
Women
An Encumbered Soul
AN ENCUMBERED SOUL Every woman who resists sex, despises sex, withholds sex, avoids sex has an encumbered soul. Definition of encumber encumbered; encumbering play \in-ˈkəm-b(ə-)riŋ\ 1. weigh down, burden tourists encumbered […]
DESIRE VS AROUSAL
Desire and arousal are words you hear a lot in our circle. Before I stepped into this journey of learning to dance with desire, I never even thought about these […]
My need for sex
Saying no to your spouse when they want sex is not helping your cause. The very things you desire from your spouse like friendship, security, help with the kids and […]
Low Sex Drive
Ladies, here’s the thing: YOU HAVE COMPLETE CONTROL OVER YOUR SEX DRIVE. If you’ve been told that it is your spouse that does, you were told wrong. If you’ve been […]
What about my upbringing?
There are many reasons why women struggle with their sexuality. Let’s talk about one of them here: upbringing. A young girl will learn about her sexuality first in her home. […]
Dutiful Sex?
Wives, if you were told before you were married that it was your duty to give sex to your husband cause that’s what he wants, you were lied to. Dutiful […]